I can soooo relate to the energy shifts that come with speaking on public/travel and being perplexed each time I observe the highs and lows, even though I’ve observed them many times before. And I often ask myself just about the same questions. I don’t have an answer either☺️
Always good to read whatever you have to say, and I love the word “bedraggled”. I’m adding to my vocabulary. ❤️
I love that you linked to Sarah's stuff. I also found her in 2016 or so and cannot believe how tragically correct she's been nearly every step of the way. You're not alone in these feelings; and together we can see it through. Somehow. Some way. Take care, in the meantime <3
Thank you so much for your sharing yourself authentically. I can so relate as I have been in a space which feels similar to what you describe. Maybe it does have a lot to do with introversion and ADHD and the political and climate issues are huge for me.
Hi Pooja! I am really enjoying all your writing and reflections. We were in high school English class together, which makes it even more awesome. Anyway, I sympathize about HFM! We went through that last year with my son; I had it in my throat for a week. I'm a psychoanalytic therapist now myself and wanted to chime in that I would like to hear more of your thoughts in that direction. I am excited that psychoanalysis is making a bit of a comeback!
Haha yep! Senior year Mrs. Goodyear I believe. I seem to recall something about a paper crown being given to the best essay writer each week?? I am in California now. @postnobillstherapy on Instagram!
I hope you enjoyed breck - I grew up in CO going there during summers and it’s my absolute favorite place 🥰 Just reread Real Self Care for the second time in as many years and it’s one of the few books I can say has truly changed my life ❤️
Authenticity ❤ exactly what I needed in this moment. Thank you! I feel your pain with the Hand, Foot, Mouth, it was terrible for my youngest. She almost ended up with IV hydration because she wouldn't drink anything. I hope the rest of your summer is magic!
Trying to get a small human that does not want to eat or drink to eat and drink is probably one of the most painful life experiences! And I hope your summer has some magic too :) thank you Maria
We're so good at pushing away suffering in this country, so your honest comments about the ups and downs of our life are appreciated. Because you indirectly brought up Freud by mentioning Karen Horney, I thought to say how pessimistic Freud was about the human race which is about how crazy we all are. Our job then would be do seek contentment and gratitude for being in this beautiful world, which it is in a deep way.
Thanks for being here Janet. Yeah Freud really did think pretty badly about us. Contentment and gratitude are admirable goals that I wish more of us were connected to.
HFM is the worst. Houston has been hit especially hard with ice storms and hurricanes lately. Meanwhile, NJ where I live is becoming a new “tornado alley.”
I have a speaking gig coming up soon which I am simultaneously excited about but also apprehensive as I am expecting a similar crash. For me it’s travel + being social.
I am in heavy revision mode on my book, Designing Success, to make the Aug 20 deadline to submit to copy editing. Unfortunately, life still happens when busy and both of my parents were hospitalized last week with completely different illnesses, though are thankfully recovering now.
I can soooo relate to the energy shifts that come with speaking on public/travel and being perplexed each time I observe the highs and lows, even though I’ve observed them many times before. And I often ask myself just about the same questions. I don’t have an answer either☺️
Always good to read whatever you have to say, and I love the word “bedraggled”. I’m adding to my vocabulary. ❤️
I’m pretty sure I made that word up ! 😂
I love that you linked to Sarah's stuff. I also found her in 2016 or so and cannot believe how tragically correct she's been nearly every step of the way. You're not alone in these feelings; and together we can see it through. Somehow. Some way. Take care, in the meantime <3
Yes! She is a truth-teller. Glad I’m not the only one but also, yes, it’s chilling.
Love you friend. I’m so grateful for you. Also, summer can be..weird, liminal, and yes, existential. 😂🫶🏼🙈
You’re the best ♥️
Yes curious about the psychoanalytic work! Psychiatrist here
Awesome! And thanks for being here 🙌🏽
Thank you so much for your sharing yourself authentically. I can so relate as I have been in a space which feels similar to what you describe. Maybe it does have a lot to do with introversion and ADHD and the political and climate issues are huge for me.
Intellectually I know I’m not the only one *and* it’s always so nice to be reminded. Thanks for taking the time to share Connie.
Hi Pooja! I am really enjoying all your writing and reflections. We were in high school English class together, which makes it even more awesome. Anyway, I sympathize about HFM! We went through that last year with my son; I had it in my throat for a week. I'm a psychoanalytic therapist now myself and wanted to chime in that I would like to hear more of your thoughts in that direction. I am excited that psychoanalysis is making a bit of a comeback!
Hi Emma! Wow what a blast from the past! Mrs Goodyear??
Haha yep! Senior year Mrs. Goodyear I believe. I seem to recall something about a paper crown being given to the best essay writer each week?? I am in California now. @postnobillstherapy on Instagram!
I hope you enjoyed breck - I grew up in CO going there during summers and it’s my absolute favorite place 🥰 Just reread Real Self Care for the second time in as many years and it’s one of the few books I can say has truly changed my life ❤️
KJ your comment made my day when I read it. Thank you for your support of my work. Truly means the world.
Glad you all made it through HFM! It can be so pitiful 💜
Pitiful !! That is the correct word.
Authenticity ❤ exactly what I needed in this moment. Thank you! I feel your pain with the Hand, Foot, Mouth, it was terrible for my youngest. She almost ended up with IV hydration because she wouldn't drink anything. I hope the rest of your summer is magic!
Trying to get a small human that does not want to eat or drink to eat and drink is probably one of the most painful life experiences! And I hope your summer has some magic too :) thank you Maria
Same girl, same!!!!! <3 Thanks for your refreshing authenticity and candor.
♥️
We're so good at pushing away suffering in this country, so your honest comments about the ups and downs of our life are appreciated. Because you indirectly brought up Freud by mentioning Karen Horney, I thought to say how pessimistic Freud was about the human race which is about how crazy we all are. Our job then would be do seek contentment and gratitude for being in this beautiful world, which it is in a deep way.
Thanks for being here Janet. Yeah Freud really did think pretty badly about us. Contentment and gratitude are admirable goals that I wish more of us were connected to.
HFM is the worst. Houston has been hit especially hard with ice storms and hurricanes lately. Meanwhile, NJ where I live is becoming a new “tornado alley.”
I have a speaking gig coming up soon which I am simultaneously excited about but also apprehensive as I am expecting a similar crash. For me it’s travel + being social.
I am in heavy revision mode on my book, Designing Success, to make the Aug 20 deadline to submit to copy editing. Unfortunately, life still happens when busy and both of my parents were hospitalized last week with completely different illnesses, though are thankfully recovering now.
Thanks for sharing where you are Catherine. Sending you a dose of calm and compassion ♥️
Hey Pooja, always good to read your posts! So sorry about K's infection—and glad to know he rallied for the trip.
I'm doing moderately well, finishing up edits for the next book and also trying to manage ADHD brain. 🤓 Keep up the good work here!
Always lovely to hear from you Chris! Congrats on being in the home stretch of your next book!! I am envious 😝